Yet, when it comes to self-reflexivity, tech is just as regressive as many other male-dominated sectors. Still, I fully admit that I hold it to a higher standard in no small part because of the widespread commitment in tech to change the world for the better, however flawed that fantastical idealism is. Given this, what I want from men in tech boils down to four Rs: Recognition. Repentance. Respect. Reparation.